I have to admit (and yes, I realize that I'm only a week in), that starting off I was having a hard time selecting people to eliminate. What if they noticed? Would their feelings be hurt? Would I come off as being a cruel narcissist?
It would be narcissistic to think they'd notice. Or care.
And so many people are "friend collectors," with numbers approaching one thousand friends. I'm pretty social -- I've met a lot of people in my years behind the bar, in restaurants, in college, in mom's groups, yoga classes, music ensembles. etc. I'd be hard-pressed to friend one thousand people that I'd actually said more than two words to.
Today's deletion seems like someone I might like, if we had a "real life" relationship. She works for Planned Parenthood, and has two adorable children, not too far in age from my own. I don't remember much about her from school -- just that she's one of the few people I've ever met with real red hair and dark eyes, instead of the typical green or gray. Once again, not much of a basis for a daily update of her life now. Wouldn't know what to say if I saw her. Wouldn't recognize her without an introduction, as she's changed a bit physically as well.
I'll see you later....
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